July 10

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Identity Versus Outcome

Goals are tiring...

Know why? Because they're far in the future. 

Training to run a marathon starts a good six months before the event happens. Graduating high school takes four years. Paying off the mortgage takes a couple decades.

Sometimes just trying to stay motivated isn't enough. Motivational speakers, videos, podcasts, all of that stuff is great. But, what really helps you or your kids make it all the way to the goal is something different.

It's your sense of identity.

More importantly, who you want to be.

Do you want to be the kind of person who tries again even after a huge fail?

Do you want to be the kind of person who practices the piano even when it's been a tiring day?

Do you want to be the kind of person who comes up with creative solutions to tough problems?

Or do you want to be the kind of person who gives up?

The decisions whether to continue or not become a whole lot easier when you start asking what those decisions say about who you are.

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About Jonathan Roberts

I am the founder and director of the South Shore Piano School, and I have been teaching the piano for nearly 20 years. My work centers around bringing music to the lives of kids, parents, and adults in an enriching, meaningful way. At the South Shore Piano School, my incredible colleagues and I accomplish this through skill-based teaching, community, and an innovative, people-first business model. You can read more about me here.


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