April 28

0 comments

Two Kinds of Relaxing

Lots of people find practicing a musical instrument relaxing.

Lots of people also find practicing a musical instrument anything but relaxing.

I believe there are two kinds of relaxing when it comes to this music business. Neither of them are the same kind of relaxing as watching a movie or taking an afternoon nap. It does require active participation.

The first sort of relaxing is finding the flow state of problem solving. Untangling musical puzzles. Finding new solutions. Enjoying the process. Celebrating every small step forward.

It's the same way some people find jigsaw puzzles relaxing. You wouldn't think fitting together 1,000 pieces into a picture would be relaxing. 

But it is. Or at least it can be.

It's the thrill of the chase. The joy of each small victory. Seeing the big picture come together bit by bit.

The second kind of relaxing is enjoying the process of creation. We are allowed to make stuff up on our instruments, after all.

It's not just for the jazz people. 

Pulling a groove out of the air like a magic trick. Playing a cool bass line. Making up melodies. Picking a key, and then changing it just because you feel like it.

It's like the musical version of the proverbial artist who flings paint at the wall. Maybe even throws herself at the wall while she's at it.

Practice doesn't always have to be about perseverance, resilience, patience, and all that serious stuff.

It can be relaxing, too.

Just make sure you pick the right version and don't mix them up. 

Never miss a blog post!

For parents, students, and anyone else who believes that music can and should be a meaningful part of everyone's life.

About Jonathan Roberts

I am the founder and director of the South Shore Piano School, and I have been teaching the piano for nearly 20 years. My work centers around bringing music to the lives of kids, parents, and adults in an enriching, meaningful way. At the South Shore Piano School, my incredible colleagues and I accomplish this through skill-based teaching, community, and an innovative, people-first business model. You can read more about me here.


Tags


You may also like

The Weekly Review

How did this past week go? What’s something you could have done better? What can you change this week to do that thing better? And how will you make sure you stick to it? Weekly reviews aren’t sexy, by any means. But they’re effective. Do it for a couple months, and you’ll be astounded by the results.

Read More

When 2 + 2 = 10

When it comes to practicing, most people don’t get how time works. People think the amount of practice time is most important. Rather than the frequency. Logic tells us this: Practicing 5 minutes for six days would be the same as practicing 30 minutes for one day. It adds up to the same total minutes, so the benefits are the same.

Read More
Leave a Reply